• Sephtis-6@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    U don’t hate children but what i hate is that one child with shitty parents will ruin the entire flight for everyone else.

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      1 year ago

      It’s usually the air pressure causing the kid some pain from mild barotrauma / airplane ear. They can’t help it. No amount of good or bad parenting changes the pressure differential in the inner ear.

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      1 year ago

      Do shitty parents and upset children exist? Absolutely.

      Yet everyone seems to ignore that maybe, just maybe, that child is being “shitty” despite having good parents.

      Maybe the kid has a medical issue causing pain and discomfort and there’s not a damn thing the parent can do except get on that flight to see a specialist.

      Maybe she’s fleeing domestic violence and needs to get to family to safe.

      Maybe the mother has postpartum depression and unfortunately cannot properly care for her child so she’s seeking help elsewhere.

      Fuck maybe the kid has an undiagnosed brain tumour that’s going to kill them. I know people that happened to.

      If you go around assuming everyone else who inconveniences you in the slightest is a shit person, you will be a shit person.

      So get over yourself. You might have a slightly less comfortable flight while that poor parent might be going through the worst time in their life.

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        1 year ago

        Of course these things do exist but most of the time(at least in my experience) the problems are shitty parents.

        For example I had 2 kids crawling under my seat for the whole flight(takeoff and landing included) and the parents just watched something on the phone.