There’s the whole ‘broken trust’ aspect, from the financial stuff. People don’t want to have sex with spmeone they can’t trust. Maybe she is also exhausted from working and taking care of your four children. Perhaps taking some load off of her by helping out more around the house would decrease the stress levels and make her more likely to be in the mood.

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That’s really good to know! Thanks!

Bird needs to invest in some family planning

My favourite subreddit was r/stupiddovenests.

It’s usually the air pressure causing the kid some pain from mild barotrauma / airplane ear. They can’t help it. No amount of good or bad parenting changes the pressure differential in the inner ear.

Investment in some noise-cancelling headphone would be justified. It’s a sanity-saving expense!

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