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  • Rachelhazideas@lemm.eetoMemes@lemmy.mlI'm right, right?
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    11 months ago

    I don’t know OP situation so I’ll reserve some judgment. However, I’m really tired of rhetoric about how alimony is always some evil scheme made to specifically destroy men in divorces.

    When people get married, often times one of them gives up their job and start performing unpaid labor. Sometimes neither of them give up their jobs, and one of them still has the majority of household burdens forced onto them, affecting their career and performance.

    Alimony is a form of compensation for the unpaid labor and it’s impact on that person’s career. More often than not, when people say ‘my ex wife is taking all my money’, what they are really saying is ‘I deserved free labor at the expense of my ex wife’.

    Granted, it’s possible that OP could be a domestic abuse victim in which case alimony is a whole other form of fucked up. But if that’s not the case, then please stop.






  • Rachelhazideas@lemm.eetoMemes@lemmy.mlI'd pick the person.
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    11 months ago

    Cops are just one of many examples. Here are some other ways of legally killing people:

    • joining the army
    • becoming a doctor and systemically neglect women and poc
    • fatally injuring someone in self defense
    • getting someone pregant in places with abortion bans

    Notice that I said killing, not ‘murdering’. So long as it’s either not deliberate or acceptable by law, you can legally get people killed.




  • Rachelhazideas@lemm.eetoMemes@lemmy.mlDebate
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    11 months ago

    The people who hate Jenny over everyone else are the same people who Skylar over Walter from breaking bad. Edgy 14 year boys who will hate a child sexual assault victim over literal murderers, cannibals, and genocidal maniacs. Misogyny at it’s finest.






  • I don’t know why you’re gate keepint existential dread, but here is the APA’s definition: “a profound, deep-seated psychic or spiritual condition of insecurity and despair in relation to the human condition and the meaning of life.”

    I’m feeling plenty of despair to the human condition and the meaning of life. I wake up everyday and ask myself why live and exist at all when existence is nothing but pain.