Boyfriend strange behaviour

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Relationship Advice@lemmy.worldEnglish · 10 months ago

Hi!

I’m dating an amazing guy. He’s very sweet and caring. He’s kind of a quiet guy.

We started dating after a friend of his brought me a note he wanted to give me (but then threw away because he was indecisive) that said how much he loved me.

I took it and invited him over to my place. At first he was afraid to touch me and I took the initiative. Lately, he has become more active in this respect and is no longer afraid to just come up and hug me.

Everything would be very good, but I can’t understand one thing. Why does he always shake when we hug? I’ve asked him about it, but he keeps silent or blushes or says “I’m sorry”. I’m very worried about him and his health. Take him to doctor?

We’ve been together for 3 months. 2nd year of university. Same age.

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10 months ago
This guy’s behavior seems quite like myself.

He’s probably been rejected a hundred times and the notion that “touching is just coming on too strong” has been drilled into his brain again and again. He’s not used to having a girlfriend actually loving him.

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