Hi!
I’m dating an amazing guy. He’s very sweet and caring. He’s kind of a quiet guy.
We started dating after a friend of his brought me a note he wanted to give me (but then threw away because he was indecisive) that said how much he loved me.
I took it and invited him over to my place. At first he was afraid to touch me and I took the initiative. Lately, he has become more active in this respect and is no longer afraid to just come up and hug me.
Everything would be very good, but I can’t understand one thing. Why does he always shake when we hug? I’ve asked him about it, but he keeps silent or blushes or says “I’m sorry”. I’m very worried about him and his health. Take him to doctor?
We’ve been together for 3 months. 2nd year of university. Same age.
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I wouldn’t worry too much about it. It sounds like he is very shy and inexperienced. It’s probably just excitement/nerves. You can ask if he likes hugging or if he’d prefer something else. If he says he likes it, I wouldn’t bring it up anymore.
Very much this. As a person thats single for ever i also flinch when i get touched unexpectedly.
that’s a very good advise
You two sound very young, like middle school or early high school. If that’s the case then don’t worry about it, it’s probably just excitement or nervousness. Just enjoy being young and in young love.
It sounds like he’s nervous when it comes to touch, or that it’s slightly overwhelming. If he’s blushing, that’s a good sign he’s enjoying it.
Its probably the human equivalent of purring.
This guy’s behavior seems quite like myself.
He’s probably been rejected a hundred times and the notion that “touching is just coming on too strong” has been drilled into his brain again and again. He’s not used to having a girlfriend actually loving him.
If his body build is asthenic, low BMI it could be normal. Without a look on weight, he need an appointment in General practitioner minimum. Apart from that psychiatric, neurological controls are advisable if amplitude is considerable.
The thrill of being with someone you are interested in. I had this all the time when I was young. It’s anxiety and nervousness. It will probably fade with time.
Anyway, check his blood sugar levels, maybe he’s hypoglycemic and needs to eat something, hehehe.