I asked what we meant and she replied with: “no wonder you don’t know”
then I said if she wanted to be, and that if she didn’t want me to talk to her then I wouldn’t
I asked what we meant and she replied with: “no wonder you don’t know”
then I said if she wanted to be, and that if she didn’t want me to talk to her then I wouldn’t
Sigh Teenagers. Not throwing shade on you OP. I mean teenagers more generally. You see, “are we talking?” is modern teenager speak for “I like you in a romantic way but I’m too afraid to ask you out so I’m hoping if I drag this out long enough, maybe you’ll ask me out instead.”
It’s an immature way of handling it. But girls your age, as I’m sure you well know, are often not very secure or comfortable with themselves yet so I expect it’s pretty common.
Don’t waste your time. That attitude often comes with more unreasonable expectations.