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  • Please read up on attachment styles.

    You are describing a very insecure relationship.

    You, most likely are somewhat anxious/ambivalent and she is likely avoidant to some degree.

    You will not be happy if you feel like you have to continue like this. You need to set boundaries, clearly defined. If she can’t work with them, that is a clue things need to change.

    There’s a very good book about this called Attached. Helped me begin to move on from my marriage.




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    5 months ago

    So ive put a lot of thot into this, and after going through what I did with my ex wife, I think it wouldn’t be a problem so long as

    A. I know about it.

    B. I get access to it and all paid content

    C. No one else appears in it. This covers the whole “well that was an old video I uploaded” scenario too.

    D. The relationship is otherwise secure.

    E. But the real problem would be someone with an onlyfans wanting to date me.










  • Man, your wife is a keeper.

    My ex would say “you’ll figure it out”.

    Then ask me later to send one for her, and get mad that I say I can’t right now, I’m focused on work.

    Then she’d forget to wrap presents. I would have too, to be fair, but I kept them in my office for a month so I always knew they needed to be wrapped. Still wrapped them Christmas eve, but the point is I didn’t forget.

    It was a terribly unhealthy relationship, and her offering to help induces far more jealousy than one might expect.


  • I don’t

    I’m just unattractive.

    Like oh hey, I have a house and a job and a really cute kid and here’s one where I’m wearing a winter coat in 109F weather to show I’m funny

    honestly I realize that dating apps are pretty much a scam.

    Actually, they’re so much of a scam I’m sitting here with my AI assistant and webstorm and thinking about how I’d make a more legitimate dating website and it would just end up making me money by selling useless services to desperate singles too busy to meet other people