Rubbing my head. I keep it buzzed and it’s 👌🏻
As a middle aged person with an adult diagnosis and a good salary… I just did whatever I thought was interesting and challenging. I’m now a senior developer. I suck at money etc, but I have a patient partner and make a decent salary. Stuff that’s easy for other people can be hard and frustrating, but I’m weirdly good at hard things.
They could be dealing with depression or something. It might not be about you at all. I try to not make assumptions.
As far as I know, people don’t homebrew Reddit.