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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • We don’t get to pick and choose who’s lives have value, even if they do something risky or stupid.

    But isn’t that exactly what happens? Was there as much of a rescue effort to find the hundreds of missing Pakistani migrants who went missing off the coast of Greece last week? Was it even as widely covered in the media as 5 missing rich people in a sub? Have you even heard that they were missing before this comment?

    What about the 5,000 missing and murdered indigenous women who disappear every year? Are we mobilizing the military to find them?

    We absolutely pick and choose whose lives have value. That’s the problem.




  • I’m not surprised in the least.

    I work in healthcare and I’ve been so burnt out after working through COVID despite how politicized it was, not knowing if I was risking my life, my loved ones’ lives, or my own permanent sense of smell and taste, all while getting told off by ignorant, selfish pieces of crap just for wearing a mask and taking an illness that I personally witnessed kill many people seriously, not to mention being overworked and understaffed for literally YEARS due to a combination of baby boomers retiring while simultaneously increasing the need for healthcare workers by needing more care as they age, coworkers finding other jobs because of their own burnout, and hospital administration trying to maximize profits at the expense of the workers and at the expense of patient care that I just up and resigned from my own job a week ago.

    I don’t even know what I’m going to do. I withdrew my retirement account early and I’m just taking some time to figure it out right now. Tbh though, the idea of going back to healthcare makes me feel physically ill. And that’s really sad because I got into it to help people, but after the way people acted during the worst pandemic we’ve had in a century I don’t want to help anyone anymore. I just want a normal 9 to 5 where I’ll have weekends, evenings, and holidays off and very little to zero risk of bringing a contagious and deadly or debilitating virus home to my family.










  • I’m a woman too, but I have the opposite opinion. The world is already a tough place right now, especially living in the southern US like I do, and maybe it’s just because my ND can make emotional regulation difficult, but sometimes I really just want a safe space where I can let my guard down and be myself without a constant fight.

    For the same reason, there were certain subreddits that I frequented often on reddit and certain ones I absolutely did not go to. I don’t mind l blocking the occasional user or even blocking an entire community myself if it means protecting my mental health, but it sounds like the adminis here were getting an unusual influx of trolls that were making it difficult to moderate this community. That’s even more difficult if each individual troll can just go make another account at one of those instances every time they get blocked here.

    If people want to access those instances, they can create secondary accounts and visit them. There’s no reason we can’t have the best of both worlds. Plus, I don’t get the feeling they want this to be a permanent decision. It seems like just a stop-gap until they can find a more permanent solution whether that’s more moderators, more rules, or more mod tools.