Nope. It can’t really be self hosted anymore, as having a residential IP is a straight track to the spam folder. It can be done if you also pay for a mail relay service, but then what’s the point of self hosting when you need to rely on a cloud service anyways.
There is a reason Elon picked her.
Not surprised. They need to milk every last drop of revenue from their users free content for the upcoming IPO.
Jellyfin and Nextcloud with UptimeKuma for monitoring. A pretty simple stack running on a mini tower, but it works great for my primary needs. Portainer for managing docker containers and stacks from a GUI.
I’m also on gmail. Haven’t had any issues with it, no real desire to change.