It helps to a degree. It got us talking a lot more and somewhat vulnerable - something we have troubles with because of our upbringings. But it’s little more than small insights, I think. I don’t know if anything has gotten “fixed”, really. And to be honest, it’s likely due to my difficulties being guilty/responsible/things that I shouldn’t be, so I keep my head down and words to myself. But yeah, it’s just a real bungled up mess. Still, thanks for the reply. The validation helps

I’ve thought about separation, but it’s pretty rough financially to pay for rent + mortgage. Still, appreciate the reply

I mean it’s not that I’m not looking for a therapist (it’s been a hassle), but it’s a lot of validation in an anonymous sense that make the internet strangers worth it for asking.

Besides, being vulnerable in text is a lot easier than in person. Not to sound cagey or defensive, but alas