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The gatekeepers of these spaces are not meaningfully different from reddit.
I came to this space in November of 2024.
As a trans person I wanted community. So I checked out blahaj first. But, the queer community here is controlled by Ada who bans anyone she doesn’t like and i ticked her off once by not bowing to her judgement when it came to allowing trolls to stay in the space. This drama also splintered the 196 community, and neither 196 space has had the same number of participants since.
So no more queer community for me. I’ve had to get that other places like Tumblr.
I then decide to use the .db0 community to report what I feel is abusive behavior from .blahaj staff and after enough time they realized that they really don’t like people using the “report abuse community” to report abuse of specific spaces like blahaj. Banned for using the space for what it was created for.
So no more .db0
I’m just so tired of using this space, it feels just like reddit except there’s somehow even less accountability.
Every week i feel less and less compelled to contribute
I used to enjoy posting like a dozen memes a day and now I don’t post anymore. It’s not fun it’s a chore to keep feeding memes and engagement into this space that pretty much only has told me it hates me for the last year.
Bad app :c
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science@lemmy.world•Outrage as Trump withdraws US from key UN climate treatyEnglish
11·14 days agoNobody is meeting climate goals.
We have blown past the 1.5C marker and will probably keep heating the planet until it kills us all.
Don’t have kids.
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Games@lemmy.world•Ubisoft Closes Canadian Studio After It UnionizesEnglish
18·15 days agoSolvent corporations shouldn’t be legally allowed to dissolve positions.
Nothing will meaningfully improve until the rich fear for their lives
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politics @lemmy.world•Minnesota could prosecute the ICE shooter. Trump can’t pardon him.
22·15 days agoThe only justice that happens in this country anymore is vigilante
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politics @lemmy.world•‘Dictator’ Trump Floats Idea of Canceling Midterm Elections
21·15 days ago“You will have to kill us to make us stop”
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politics @lemmy.world•Judge orders Lindsey Halligan to explain why she's still serving as U.S. attorney after previous ruling against her
22·15 days agoBecause the only way these religious extremist pedophiles will leave office is in body bags
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•People who identify as male/masculine, do you feel comfortable expressing your emotions/feelings to people irl? Do people who identify as female/feminine feel more comfortable espressing feelings?
3·16 days agoMtF genderfluid here
The more feminine I have become, the more acceptable it is for me to show emotional vulnerability. The more people genuinely listen to me and not treat me like a disgusting animal they are hesitantly entertaining until they can get away.
When I lived as a cis man not even my friends wanted to hear it, and they are good people.
When a man cries in front of his partner for the first time, usually a switch will flip, and that partner will never look at you the same way again. Being vulnerable with even your closest relationships often feels like a mistake.
Men don’t talk about their feelings because almost nobody in society has empathy for others, especially if you are more masculine, especially if you “look scary”.
The experience being a man is isolating and dehumanizing by default.
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Political Discussion and Commentary@lemmy.world•Why is Trump able to do whatever the fuck he wants?English
7·16 days agoBecause anyone in a position to stop him is complicit or a coward
It’s on us to gather our communities and force him into an execution
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science@lemmy.world•Yes, Social Media Might Be Making Kids DepressedEnglish
4·17 days agoWe will never fix any real problems.
Every few years there will be a new technology boogie man (newspapers, tv, phones, etc.) that we use to pretend our society and the pedophiles that control it aren’t the ones making us all depressed and sick.
Every few years we will prove beyond any reasonable doubt that this is not how humans work and not how they will ever work.
And the fucking smoothbrains lap it up like dogs every time so they can hate their own children instead of learning about the new technology every time.
Don’t have kids
Probably because most of these spaces exist to push whatever narrative the admins and mods who own it want, and open conversation about these topics might result in some people learning about the world around them and making their own decisions.
Notice how many accounts appeared overnight from the Venezuela shit pretending a war was inevitable? Those are the accounts these spaces exist to enable.
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politics @lemmy.world•Is there any legal justification for the US attack on Venezuela?
4·17 days agoNo justification to attack a sovereign nation
Maduro and Trump are friends
Maduro gets to escape his country and save face instead of being assassinated or executed.
Trump gets to manufacture a conflict so he can start martial law and become a dictator, and to distract from us learning he came inside little girls.
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politics @lemmy.world•Department of Justice Violates Epstein Files Law By Failing to Inform Congress of Reasons Behind Redactions
3·18 days agoConsent is being manufactured,
Congress will support the fascists like they always have
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politics @lemmy.world•Department of Justice Violates Epstein Files Law By Failing to Inform Congress of Reasons Behind Redactions
9·18 days agoSo who’s going in a cell for this?
Put the pedo king in a cell
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politics @lemmy.world•Trump says 'a couple of guys' and a helicopter were hit as US forces stormed a 'fortress' to capture Maduro
2·19 days agoMaduro and Trump are friends
Maduro gets to escape his country and save face instead of being assassinated or executed.
Trump gets to manufacture a conflict so he can start martial law and become a dictator, and to distract from us learning he came inside little girls.
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politics @lemmy.world•Susie Wiles: Trump Needs Approval from Congress On Venezuela
2·19 days agoMaduro and Trump are friends
Maduro gets to escape his country and save face instead of being assassinated or executed.
Trump gets to manufacture a conflict so he can start martial law and become a dictator, and to distract from us learning he came inside little girls.



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