

It also has a lot to do with who you choose to partner with.
I’m poly and in a semi-open relationship with my two partners, but we all started as monogamous and eventually branched out. One of my former partners was poly for a while, but after getting with a mono partner, she decided to marry and have them as their only partner. They miss some of the poly aspects, but they’re happy in their relationship and get some of them from BDSM play as well



Damn, I’ve thankfully never worked with active tweakers, but I know the smell and how clean they can make things when they get into a mood (assuming they’re not taking shit apart)