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  • Droggelbecher@lemmy.worldtoScience Memes@mander.xyzHoney
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    16 days ago

    I didn’t want to go into it in the original comment, but yes. It is a relevant debate whether it’s vegan to swallow another humans semen, or even saliva. And yes, it is, if the human consents. Consent is the more or less the basis of whether vegans find it moral to consume something. Humans can give consent to sharing their fluids. Other animals cannot.


  • Droggelbecher@lemmy.worldtoScience Memes@mander.xyzHoney
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    16 days ago

    Bees make honey for their hive. Honey also does indeed contain bodily fluids from the bees.

    The bread making human consents to you taking the bread (presumably). Breast milk and other human bodily fluids can be vegan for the same reason.

    And insects pollinate plants not because they use the fruit, but for the nectar. They don’t care what happens after they leave the flower.





  • This is a twofold problem. One part is that your ethical beliefs aren’t compatible, one is his disregard for your needs.

    Whether you can live with the first one, only you can tell. It’s valid to want to date someone who holds the same beliefs as you, and it’s valid to be ok with some ethical differences. The latter of course comes with some logistical difficulties that can be a lot to handle, maybe even too much.

    The second isn’t something that’s healthy for you or the relationship. You’ll have to talk about that. If he can’t respect your needs, that’s a pretty fundamental incompatibility.