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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • You are allowing yourself to be exploited for no additional benefit to yourself except for words. Your quality of life isn’t improving by any measurable means by being appreciated. Think about this. If you were on your death bed right now, what would you reflect on that you did in your life that you remember most as the most important memories and what would you regret? Would you think to yourself, yah that time I spent doing that work was a life well spent? Would you regret not doing more things that were for yourself and you enjoyed? Or spending more time with loved ones? What is the most important to you that you do with this life? Life is honestly short and can be taken away at any given moment. For me the most important is doing things woth people I care about and creating memorable moments. I will not value the time I spent at work when I’m about to die. I work in order to live. Not the other way around.








  • Cryst@lemmy.catoADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comOn hard mode
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    1 year ago

    I’m glad you are finally getting the help that you need. I’m diagnosed with depression and anxiety. Luckily my mother has always been in support of medication for mental health. So I was able to get treatment at a decently young age. It was mostly my own stubbornness of not wanting to accept I was “broken” that I didn’t get treatment till I was 19.



  • Yah. I was just overwhelmed with the amount to manage for them all and I didn’t feel connected to any of them. I think I put maybe 10 hours into it and that was it. I just didn’t understand the job thing or whatever it was called. Like you could rank up in the job types or something of the other characters as secondary skills. There was just way too much going on I had no idea what was good or not good I felt like I was just randomly picking something and had no idea if it was doing anything worth while or not and there 2as just so much to pick from. It was such a time sink just in the menus to manage them.