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  • Yeah, common VPSes are monitored too, it’s a very easy add. Alert on IP ranges from a publicly maintained and easy to find list is not a hard ask. If you ran it through AWS, it would probably pass a lot of basic checks. Using residential IPs will probably get you a bit of time, but I can’t imagine there being a good way to do that without it being very hard for the VPN provider to keep up and very easy for a security company to just make a new list of IPs and assume the whole range is bad.

    Your best defense here though is that your cybersecurity team probably doesn’t care that you’re doing this once it’s determined that you aren’t a malicious actor as long as you aren’t creating too many alerts.







  • I know for a fact they aren’t married

    Do you really? Are you absolutely positive?

    The behavior is still maybe not okay, but the rest kind of falls into place if their arrangement is more formal. It’s weird to drive your ex-boyfriends car, it’s less weird to drive the car of the husband you’re currently separated from because it’s also kinda your car too.

    This is also kinda your best case scenario. It sounds like she’s either secretly married and feels bad about not telling you earlier or you’re just the side guy.