I nuked my Reddit accounts today. Deleted all comments and posts, then the accounts themselves. The tool I used showed each comment as it was deleted, and it was bittersweet.

I watched old gaming and movie discussions I barely remember appear and then get flagged as deleted. Communities I once participated in and then moved on as the years past flashed by. I remembered how I felt back then, and then watched them scroll on into oblivion.

Now I feel…I guess it’s grief. Sadness for that part that’s gone. Sadness that it’ll never be there again. Like footprints on a beach wiped away by the tide. It’s like it never happened. There is no trace.

And I feel anger. Mad that it came to this. Mad that I let a corporation have so much of my time and thoughts. Mad that they made it clear my life was nothing but a product to them.

It’s over now. Time for a new chapter.

Anyone else have strong feelings about losing a part of the past like this?

  • feetongrass@beehaw.org
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    1 year ago

    Just make sure to go back in a day or two to make sure your comments/posts stay deleted. Reddit restored all my posts/comments that I edited using Power Delete Suite back to their original content.

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    You post is almost a poem. It was nice to read.

    If I can offer a different more positive view. You connected with other humans, and shared your experiences and love for your hobbies. Yes it happened on reddit, but it can happen again somewhere else.

    I know this is quoted to death but here are some wise words from Dr. Seuss:

    • Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.
  • WondrousFairy@lemmy.fmhy.ml
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    Rando internet hug

    I still have my account left because I’m an incurable optimist. Or rather, realist. Spaz can’t keep getting away with this shit forever you know? At some point, the board is going to look at his childish antics disguised as corporate governance and say “Hey, this guy is a big fat phony!” and then… his goose is going to be cooked.

    Still, deleting tons of shit is rough. I did the same for my Digg account which had a few years on it.

    But … see it like this, you used your voice and you said “fuck you!” and left. That counts for something.

    The fediverse and lemmingverse reminds me of how Reddit used to be. Sure, fewer posts, but much more salience. More actual content instead of repost bots. Less Onlyfans and more actual horny people posting stuff. More nerds and less HURR DURR retards.

    I know I jumped off the cliff to be with you fellow Lemmings, but damn if it isn’t fun!

    • Omegamanthethird@beehaw.org
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      I think you are an optimist. Something that has always rubbed me the wrong way is how aggressively unempathetic Reddit is. They prioritize their own convenience and will ridicule you for caring.

      This has been no different. I just saw the NFL sub came back online and people are near-unanimously livid at the mods and endlessly mocking them. Apparently they even made a secondary sub to go to. And it’s the off-season.

      • WondrousFairy@lemmy.fmhy.ml
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        Well, we’ll see. One of Bloombergs columnists just fired a warning shot across their bow by pointing out that they’re rapidly losing their core audience and that a migration is practically guaranteed at this point because of their actions. Also bear in mind that Reddit is using astroturfers to aggressively push their “fuck the mods” narrative. Most people aren’t buying it since now everybody is starting to see just how uniform their talking points are. And mind you, just as with the whole Wizards Of The Coast debacle, when financial institutions and newspapers start telling you that you’re screwing up your stuff, that’s real bad because investors tend to listen to those before making a decision.

        What Reddit’s management could do would be to simply scapegoat ol Spaz and feed him to the wolves by firing him and then saying “We listened to you, here’s [reasonable pricing]” Then they could not only restore their brand, but keep moderators on staff AND cash in on people doing volunteer work in creating/moderating content while paying for it.

        However, it seems that often, business intelligence people seem to lack basic insight into human motivation and empathy. And that’s something that’s been literally confirmed in science.

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    Imagine all the real life conversations you have had that isn’t documented in any way and you have forgotten ever took place. People that you dont even know you’ve forgotten. That is a part of life and even if old conversations are valuable, they are not as valuable as making new ones.

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    1 year ago

    Please check that your comments and accounts stay deleted!

    It seems Reddit is restoring deleted comments.

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    13 years account here. I’ve been postponing doing the same thing. In the last months I’ve grown opposed to Facebook, then Twitter, then finally Reddit. I’ve come to the conclusion that any form of corporate social media is harmful to individuals and communities.

    Every discussion you’ve had has contributed to how you are today and that remains.

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      Why are they harmful? Are you saying you didn’t learn a single thing while you were there? Redditors helped me greatly. Reddit was simply the platform through which we discussed incredible ideas and life tips, and I literally found and made friendships on there that we went off Reddit for and have lasted since 2014+; I even talk to one such online friend daily, and am very focused on helping another who’s in dire straits IRL. Additionally, I learned a fair bit about CSS upfront as a mod of various small subs.

      If you really think “any form of corporate social media is harmful” then I have to question how you were using it.

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        I can’t necessarily speak for the person you’re responding to, but I can speak to my own experience with corporate social media. Without a doubt, reddit, Twitter, Facebook, etc provided things that I value: a way to connect with people and a place to learn. But when I did it on those platforms, all of those fun chats, philosophical conversations, and learning moments that I had were owned by the social media company. I got something out of it, sure, but the corporation was skimming off the top. The recent debacles that so many social media platforms have had recently is just demonstrating that they’re getting greedier and greedier. They’re trying to extract more value from our relationships and interactions. This is pretty much how every corporate-owned social media platform is destined to end, because shareholders always demand growing profits. In the end, the only resource that social media companies can draw on to drive those growing profits is us.

  • Nick B.@beehaw.org
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    I was going to overwrite mine after 14 years but a significant event made me hold off. My home city in the UK has been in the news for all the wrong reasons and r/nottingham is useful to keep up with events without having to trawl through the mainstream media and all the right-wing trolling that follows them. Maybe next week when I get back home and things have calmed down.

  • mrmanager@lemmy.today
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    When I deleted my account a few years back, I felt similar but mostly relief actually.

    The sad part is that we spend so much of our lives in our phones. I don’t like that it’s reddit that gets the data, it’s much better if it’s not under some corporation, but I wish we enjoyed our lives more instead. But they are often boring and routine since our daily energy goes into working for someone so we can pay bills and have a place.

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    I know how you feel. Seeing how much i had contributed to them over the years was crazy. I overwrote all mine with a protest message and several hours later deleted the accounts. The site has changed for the worse with just all of us taking steps like this

  • Deemo@lemmy.fmhy.ml
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    I couldn’t truly nuke my account. I’m studying for mcat and r/MCAT has a ton of better explanations for aamc (test maker) practice tests.

    I sort use Lemmy 90% and reddit 10%.

    I also installed blacklist to filter out reddit content (their is a toggle to show hidden reddit searches in worst case if needed). This kinda helps give visibility to other sites.

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    As much as I’m unhappy with reddit I don’t think I could bring myself to delete my comments. Seems like a loss for the internet at large to do so, nothing more frustrating to be searching for help on a topic only to find that the solution was removed.

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    I can’t bring myself to delete stuff like that, in the same way that I don’t like throwing away books. If I post less on Reddit so be it, and if I eventually stop then meh, but I want my post history to still be there.

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    went through and deleted everything I could on my profile. I don’t feel bad about it I killed all my other social media accounts years ago. Life is easier that way for sure.

    unfortunately I cant seem to actually delete the account itself though. that button just results in “Something went wrong while deleting your account. Come back later and try again.” How convenient that must be for their sales data.

    if anyone knows how to get around that please share

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        Good to know, thank you!

        I’ll be doing this for my Reddit account before the 30th rolls around and these deletion bots stop working.