• billwashere@lemmy.world
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    18 days ago

    Boy am I glad I’m not the only one. This describes me exactly. Having a partner nag me to get something done is like having a literal little devil on my shoulder and is often the motivation I need. Now with me and my own projects that she has no vested interest in, those sit and languish for days, weeks, months, years….

    • glimse@lemmy.world
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      18 days ago

      (this is not a flex AT ALL) I am selfless to a fault. I care so little about my needs in comparison to others’ and I hate it