• bleistift2@feddit.de
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    2 months ago

    That’s the sensible thing to do. You can’t do everything. So if you’re going to fail anyway, you might as well do it lying down.

    • Eheran@lemmy.world
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      2 months ago

      What a terrible way to think. How about not trying to do everything all at once, but one thing at a time and enjoying it?

      • Toaster@lemmy.world
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        2 months ago

        I agree with you, you need to take manageable bites to even begin to get a grip on executive dysfunction. The downvotes seem extreme.

        1% more each day every day, baby.

        • BeAware@lemmy.dbzer0.comM
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          2 months ago

          The downvotes are because we aren’t here to be critisized for our way of doing things. If that’s what we wanted, we’d have went to our very own parents. That energy isn’t well received here, obviously.

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            2 months ago

            I don’t see a critic, I see someone trying to help.

            At some point you need to choose agency and be your own parent. It takes a horrific amount of work and you need to choose agency like every fucking nanosecond which is exhausting but it’s already exhausting and horrific being depressed and screaming at yourself to stop staring at your phone and do something, anything, please, so you might as well get up and do five push-ups so you can say you moved your life 1% forward that day.

            A defeatist mindset only leads to weaponizing ones incompetence, which is cancerous.

            • BeAware@lemmy.dbzer0.comM
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              2 months ago

              If “what a terrible way to think” isn’t criticism to you, then let me not critisize your opinion and say that it sucks.

              Have a good day.

      • thepreciousboar@lemm.ee
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        2 months ago

        Bro first of all you are breaking the only rule. Second, it’s a joke, we all know the best thing to do, the difficuklt thing is doing it