• Jtskywalker@lemm.eeEnglish
    63·
    10 months ago

    This is missing step 5 - a few months later I forget that I have a habit and have to start over from scratch

    Every. Single. Time.

    • Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.comOPEnglish
      254·
      10 months ago

      If you have to remember to do it it’s not a habit. Or at least that’s my understanding of habits.

      • Jtskywalker@lemm.eeEnglish
        27·
        10 months ago

        Yeah that’s what I’m talking about.

        I have habits that I don’t have to think about and then one day they’re just gone and I have to start over. Usually it happens by having a sudden realization that the thing I did for months without thinking about it has not been done for several weeks. Then to rebuild that habit I have to start over again.

        • Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.comOPEnglish
          91·
          10 months ago

          Makes sense. I never had any habits besides getting various forms of entertainment on the internet so I can’t relate. I always have to make an active effort to do something and then at some point (usually days, a few weeks is my absolute maximum) my brain refuses to even do the bare minimum to make me do stuff.

    • rosymind@leminal.spaceEnglish
      9·
      10 months ago

      This is my fitness downfall. I have a cyclical problem that involves immense pain and fatigue (i have a uterus that hates me) and each time I get into working out, the organ renders me temporarily useless. Getting back into a work out regime after its over seems impossible (though I keep trying) This has happened about once ot twice per year for as long as I can remember (starting to work out and then failing due to the thing)

      • lightnsfw@reddthat.comEnglish
        7·
        10 months ago

        At least you’re trying! Some effort is better than nothing. I’ve found that even if I can’t go though a whole routine at least doing part of it will get me back in the habit. I have a shortened workout regiment for that purpose. Or if I’m really unable to focus I do handstand progression excercises.

    • Naia@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
      3·
      10 months ago

      I was doing good for months walking at least every other day.

      Then I had some things thst came up causing a ton of stress and I just couldn’t. And here is sit, months later and I’ve barely touched my treadmill since.

      • lightnsfw@reddthat.comEnglish
        2·
        10 months ago

        Yeah stress can definitely mess you up. I’ve basically just gone home and crashed every day this week because work is crazy. Gonna just let myself go this weekend and get wasted then get back on the horse next week.

  • Cryptic Fawn@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
    15·
    10 months ago

    So my niece lives with me; she was not used to showering more than once a week. Yea… she stank and I refuse to share space with nasty BO. So I started making her shower at least every other day. It’s taken over 6 months but she finally knows which days she needs to shower without me having to remind her. The first 5 months were hell though. I do suspect she has ADHD.

    If only I could get her older brother to do the same. He shares a room with his father who barely showers as well, so I think that’s a battle I’d lose unfortunately. And yes, they stink. Horribly. But at least I’ve saved my niece from being bullied (which happened in the past before they lived with me).

  • LazaroFilm@lemmy.worldEnglish
    12·
    10 months ago

    3 months later you need to change your habit because the season has changed and wool lines sweatpants are too hot to wear.

  • lzbz@programming.devEnglish
    10·
    10 months ago

    I realised like a year ago that I get up better if I set an alarm for a 7 hour sleep. I usually wake up before the alarm somehow and if I manage to get up, I won’t feel tired the entire day. Did that for a year, then I just forgot and for an entire month I was irritated why my sleep sucked so bad…