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Cake day: July 16th, 2023

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  • It’s entirely fair to want to get better at it, but those people probably couldn’t help you even if they were inclined to, because they’re bad at socializing- they invited someone whose socialization style doesn’t vibe with their party, then their response is to mock the guest for their own mistake.

    Not everyone is like that, and not every neurotypical is like that. It’s hard to find a good group, but one exists for you.

    Also, specifically regarding learning to socialize: you don’t necessarily have to get help from neurotypicals- that’s like having a math teacher who’s just naturally good at math, vs one who had to struggle to master it. You learn better from the latter if you’re not also gifted at math.














  • idiomaddict@lemmy.worldto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneruler
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    8 days ago

    Black humor is a totally different thing and I’d react differently if David Hogg were laughing about school shootings (and have reacted differently when my friends who were directly affected by them do), but these are more like the dead baby jokes that teenagers tell for shock value, as opposed to humorizing pain. I said “you,” but I was referring to the people telling me these jokes, rather than the general you.





  • When Biya’s regime unleashed the military, peaceful protests gave way to an armed separatist insurgency. At least 6,000 people were killed in the subsequent violent confrontations, displacing over half a million, and leaving 1.3 million in need of aid.

    Dismissing the reports as “phantasmagorical” and “a clumsy attempt at disinformation”, Tchiroma, as the government spokesperson, had accused human rights organizations documenting the atrocities of being in cahoots with the secessionists.

    “I 100% agree that the military committed atrocities,” he said in his election campaign. “But as minister of communication, my duty was to defend our armed forces,” he reasoned. “Today, I speak as a free man.”

    He has even offered to hold a referendum to return the country to federalism – a long-standing demand in the Anglophone region. “I say it clearly: centralization has failed,” he said. As the communications minister, however, Tchiroma had reportedly banned the national media from using the word.

    They both seem pretty awful. Tchiroma has about faced in a matter of months and nobody seems to actually care about the western part of the country.